“Kadang berpikir bagi kita keajaiban, bagi yang melakukan hanyalah bagian kenyataan” (Redefine’s Words)

 

Pertanyaannya, apakah “bawah sadar” anda tahu  yang benar atau salah?

Terserah apa kata para ahli yang menyimpulkan bahwa benar itu relatif. Sesuatu yang sangat lemah menurut saya, mengapa? Ketika kebenaran itu relatif, berarti semua orang punya keputusan berbeda atas hal sama yang dilakukan, dinikmati, dirasa dan sebagainya. Artinya sebenarnya terjadi perbedaan, bukan? Bagaimana kita menyimpulkan bahwa perbedaan itu benar semua, dan kita berharap orang akan saling berdamai dengan perbedaan.

Kemudian bagi anda yang tahu kesadaran ini, perbedaan adalah normal. Itu saja kah?

Saya bertanya, apa benar “bawah sadar” anda memutuskan dengan benar? Bagi saya harus ada nilai mutlak nya.

Itulah kenapa kita butuh satu “bingkai aturan” yang memang mengatur benar itu. “Bingkai aturan” harus dibuat oleh sesuatu yang dibenarkan juga oleh semua orang. Sesuatu ini harus Maha Dahsyat, diakui, dan berbeda dengan kita. Itu yang kita sebut “TUHAN”. Kita harus sepakat dulu tentang NYA, karena tanpa pengakuan diri tentang kekuatan yang Maha Dahsyat tadi, adalah hal yang percuma bicara soal “BENAR atau SALAH”

Beny Sudarmaji S.Kom, CM. NLP, CHt

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Of course we all know, that everything must be done correctly. It means we have to maximize the belief to decide, and believe in the “subconscious” completely.

The question, whether “unconscious” you know who is right or wrong?

It’s up to what experts who concluded that the right is relative. Something very weak in my opinion, why? When the truth is relative, meaning everyone has a different decision on the same thing done, enjoyed, perceived, and so on. That is really going on the difference, right? How do we conclude that the difference is really all, and we hope people will make peace with each other differences.

Then for those of you who know this awareness, the difference is normal. That’s it kah?

I ask, what is “unconscious” you decide correctly? For me there should be its absolute value.

That is why we need a “frame rule” which is set true. “Frame rules” should be created by something that is justified also by everyone. Something has to be the Supreme Powerful, recognized, and different from us. That which we call “Lord”. We should agree first on the HIS, because without self-recognition of the power of the Most Powerful earlier, it is useless to talk about “TRUE or FALSE”

Beny Sudarmaji S. Kom, CM. NLP, CHt

Copy & Paste!

Itulah Pola yang selalu diterapkan anak-anak dalam membangun kebiasaan dirinya. Jadi, itulah modeling, bukan? Begitu banyak hal yang akhirnya ada semacam circle of teaching antara anak saya dan saya sendiri.

Sebenarnya saya lah yang berguru pada nya ketika ingin mengetahui cara yang paling mudah memodel. Olahan yang saya dapatkan dari anak saya nantinya akan dimodel juga oleh anak saya. Contoh mudah, dan sudah ada iklannya adalah ketika menggosok gigi, dengan tanpa prasangka apa pun dia mengikuti cara saya melakukannya. Hasilnya!, di posisi awal saja sudah 90 % sama !. Besok dan hari lainnya, dia mengulangi proses tersebut, sehingga tidal perlu saya bilang “menggosok gigi harus diputar ya, yang belakang dulu, …”, dan sebagai nya.

Bagi orang tua yang “merasa” sulit mendidik anak nya, ya yang paling gampang beri contoh saja. Semakin rapport anda tertata baik dengan anak, semakin cepat dia mengikuti anda.

Percaya atau tidak bahkan itu dilakukan dari sebelum anak kita lahir!

Beny Sudarmaji

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Copy & Paste!

That pattern is always applied to children in developing the habit themselves. So that was the modeling, is not it? So many things that ultimately there is a kind of circle of teaching between my children and myself.

Actually I was the one who sit under him when they want to know the easiest way of modeling. Preparations that I got from my child will be modeled well by my children. Simple example, and there are already advertising is when brushing your teeth, without prejudice to whatever he followed the way I do it. The result!, in early position alone was 90% the same!. Tomorrow and the other day, she repeats the process, so the tidal need I say “brush your teeth should be rotated so, the rear first, and as …”, it.

For parents who “feel” hard to educate her children, yes most easily give examples. The more you ordered a good rapport with the child, the faster he follow you.

Believe it or not it even be done from before our children were born!

Beny Sudarmaji

Hidup kok susah!

Kalimat menggerutu yang wajar dan sangat alami. Terasa miskin terus, banyak hutang, anak sakit, biaya sekolah mahal, istri minta ini itu, beberapa state wajar yang hadir di tengah kehidupan alami manusia.

Belief kita yang berorientasi pada TUHAN sebagai sumber kekuatan, mengharuskan merubah kalimat-kalimat tadi menjadi lebih arif. Sebentar lagi kaya, anak hampir sehat, biaya sekolah sangat sesuai dengan fasilitas nya, istri lagi manja, mungkin dapat menjadi alternatif untuk membuka jalan keluar Hidup menjadi kok semakin menarik ya!.

Susah kok hidup!

Kalimat ini lebih dahsyat lagi kalau dibiarkan. Sayang kalau hidup harus diakhiri karena efek kalimat ini.

Kunci nya adalah mengembalikan siapa yang membuat HIDUP? TUHAN bukan?. Apa mungkin TUHAN membuat orang terhina atau susah?. Jawabannya pun jelas, kecuali kalau kita menuduh TUHAN yang negatif! Ooo sebuah kemungkinan yang Nol. Jadi sikap awal adalah merubah kalimat tersebut menjadi : “Hebat! setiap orang berhak HIDUP, apapun keadaannya!” atau kalimat lain yang “membuang kata susah” akan berakibat Neuro positif menjadi semakin kuat dan membantu untuk LEBIH HIDUP lagi.

Apa penyebab nya? TUHAN telah memberi kita POTENSI HIDUP, bahkan sebelum kita lahir ke dunia. Jadi yang berhak MENGAKHIRI HIDUP ADALAH TUHAN.

God In Faith Truth

Beny Sudarmaji

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Life really hard!

Grumbled a reasonable sentence and very natural. Feels poor continues, many debts, child illness, school fees are expensive, the wife asked for this, some state fair that comes in the midst of a natural human life.

Our Belief oriented GOD as a source of strength, requires changing the sentences had become more wise. Soon a rich, almost healthy child, school fees were in line with its facilities, the wife again spoiled, might be an alternative to opening a way out Life is really more interesting ya!.

Living’s easy!

This sentence is even more powerful if allowed. Unfortunately when life should end because the effect of this sentence.

The key is to restore her who makes LIFE? GOD is not it?. What may the Lord make people insulted or hard?. The answer was obvious, unless we accuse the Lord is negative! Ooo a possibility that Zero. So the initial attitude is to change the sentence becomes: “Great! every person entitled to LIFE, no matter the circumstances!” or other sentence that “hard to drop the word” will result in positive Neuro become stronger and help to MORE LIVING again.

What causes it? God has given us THE POTENTIAL LIFE, even before we were born into the world. So who has the right ENDING LIFE IS GOD.

Faith In God Truth

Beny Sudarmaji

Salam,

Beny Sudarmaji

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One thing to be specificity in strengthening the belief is the source of strength. General questions when you learn NLP is “why there is no right or wrong?”, it was. But the real NLP can also be a tool amplifier to pump “SUBCONSCIOUS” in deciding the Internal Reaction occurring. His simple language, if we believe in “WORD HEART” its best we also believe that it is indeed the truth of the Absolute. And we will always hold that the ABSOLUTE TRUTH only present in the Lord.

Sincerely,

Beny Sudarmaji